Why Beauty prefer Chounan?

Recently, a lot of my friends said to me: Why Beauty prefer Chou Nan as his boyfriend do? In fact, which contains two obvious factors: First, this type of men are more narcissistic that he is handsome guy; second, this type of men are more failures, because they exist "not to eat grapes on the Yueputaosuan "mentality.



What exists in reality there is no Chounan do with the beauty of the pairing? Of course, exist, but the pairing of men and women are rare. In determining, in relation to there is a big gap. Chou Nan has judged handsome guy with the standards? Many people think Jay is a handsome guy, the same was said that he was Chou Nan. Therefore: the eyes of a beauty lover. Woman, not a fool, they are in choosing boyfriends or husbands, when considered to be a lot more than outsiders, since this is the case, they will choose what outsiders think is Chounan the men?



Interaction between people often arise two situations: first, subsidizing; second, half a dozen. That subsidizing couples can not last long because of the psychological imbalance will be reflected everywhere in life. For example, at first glance you see a person, always felt that he and you are not a grade, then you will produce a "how to see how it unacceptable," the emotional default. The relationship between Tweedledum and Tweedledee, it will not last long, no one who is not satisfied. A person think of themselves as right, the other also think that they go wrong, two people can not reach the case of unification, they will naturally out of an unnecessary collision sparks.



A comprehensive look, men and women between the attachment and the other is a relatively rational. The speculation that the "Beauty and the Chou Nan," than what we imagined to stabilize. After all, one party is willing to submit to the other party. However, there are a very unreasonable state of emergence. Submit to often incidental to the psychological imbalance.



The so-called Chounan is not ugly, of which some people very thought, they know the needs of women to men. Because of their appearance flaws, they will strengthen their own connotations. The resulting out of a problem is the content displayed to offset the higher women to men external demand, which requires a tremendous amount to pay. For example, women's demands for obedience, such as the women wait in every possible way. Often this in the past, women feel that this type of man is very reliable, but the accumulation of imbalances in the hearts of men would explode at any time. The most common flash point is the "Chou Nan sexual relations with the beautiful" after.



Wolf, has a nature, there is no absolute certainty felt no helping hand, and can be latent for a long time. In fact there is still a man's heart of hearts that the nature of the wolf. In access to women before they can live with everything, but the real, once acquired, is an entirely different story of the.



In summary, it seems that the relationship between men and women is very complex. In actual fact, the complexity is because we see it too complicated. People need to live simple, live natural, live magnanimous. Would you want to express them, will express what you see between the two can be treated transparently.



If the two sides to each other a kind of "figuring out" mentality, has increased a lot of uncertainty. Just like the subprime mortgage crisis in the United States, an increase of trust in humans, it will be hugely magnified the crisis. Once the lack of confidence in the crisis would be like to burst forth like a volcanic eruption, out of control.



Who is such a total want their own purity, but often camouflage himself. People have such a weakness, always hold their own in a contrasting environment to enjoy yourself the pain, get rid of happiness! And failure is such contradictions exist in the society, who can not change, Who we all share a lack of simple and direct it?