Chinese wife of the concept of the three errors

Erroneous dedication

This first manifested in their physical structure, function and response to the lack of adequate knowledge and understanding.

This simple concept of devotion, or at least the potential of several adverse outcomes: (1) gross and even sexual abuse encountered by their husbands, the wife is neither a boycott of the inner power, a lack of knowledge and to change its ways. (2) appears normal sex life is not harmonized, the wife too much too easy to blame the husband, it will aggravate contradictions. (3) Even if sex life smooth, pure devotion to his wife is also difficult to appreciate the fun and value, will produce anti-apathy and alienation. This will naturally also increase feelings of poor and eventually form a vicious cycle. (4) Even more harmonization, the wife may also be a lack of continuous improvement within the improvement of power, long run could easily lead to both mental fatigue.

Image Misunderstanding

Overly concerned about their image, both easy to deny self, and easy to Cuoguai each other. In addition, there is one of the most direct, the most common adverse effects - has diverted attention from their own, so that spectators or censor themselves in position, intentionally, reluctantly, that we should do some self - such a thing. The results, not only themselves unable to feel the sexual life with her husband's love, but also objectively to each other have a dampening and disappointment.

High expectations of Misunderstanding

Such errors exist in the positive affirmation of the sexual life of his wife in the role of their sexual lives have high expectations, mainly reflected in the following aspects.

☆ Some wives do not understand the male sexual physiology and sexual psychological characteristics, the misconception that men at any time under any circumstances are bound to take the initiative to urgently. Therefore, in each other's physical and mental fatigue, or their failure to give adequate visual and mental stimulation, I felt that her husband did not want sex life just do not considerate myself if it is love, play down, or even a circumcenter.

☆ Some of the sex life of his wife, the emotional exchange with the high demand, but not in disdain, or in not good at expression and communication, the results produced can not tell their troubles, while the husband's scratching their heads. Even more to make his wife feel that her husband does not understand his own heart, and is likely to escalate as not really love, men do not understand love.

☆ Some wives are not good sexual life and marriage to the daily life of a distinction between no understanding of the differences between the two. Husband's sexual life by doing good, his wife mistakenly thought he was bound to all aspects of daily life are the model husband. Slightly different, the wife will complain: Sweetie went to bed, tenderness gone? Might even wonder: So you love just to do you want! Some are exaggerated for the theory: a woman sex is cheating.

☆ a small number of women with no sex life to punish her husband's fault. Some of his wife, overly romantic cachet love, always feel that it is detrimental to marital sex life