An unintentional eye, a casual smile, a subtle little trick, it may determine your success or failure - even if it is a million yuan level of business negotiations. Yes, we have ignored those tiny body language, that is, with so much magic. So let people take you to see through blue heart lies eight kinds of gestures.
Gesture 1: touch the nose
Touching the nose in the nose, hand gesture is generally the next few friction along quickly, and sometimes even just a slight touch. And cover the mouth, like the speaker implies that he was touching his nose to cover up their lies, to listen to those who do this gesture is clear that he expressed doubts about the speaker's words.
Chicago's Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation, the scientists discovered that when people lie, the kind of names of chemical substances taste catecholamines will be released, causing cell swelling within the nasal cavity. Scientists have also revealed that blood pressure will rise due to lying. Increased blood pressure, leading to expansion of the nose, causing nasal irritation, tearing of the nerve endings to send out the feeling, so one can only hands frequently to ease the friction nose and itchy symptoms.
American neurologist in-depth study of Bill Clinton on the Monica Lewinsky sex scandal testimony presented to the jury, they found that when Bill Clinton telling the truth rarely touch their nose. But as long as Bill Clinton a liar, and his brow would be a lie slightly Yizhou inadvertently prior to export, but once every four minutes touching nose, touching the nose during the presentation of testimony, a total of 26 times.
However, we must bear in mind that the nose touch gesture requires a combination of the other body language to carry out read, and sometimes people to make this action only because of pollen allergy or touch the nose of the gestures were cold.
Gesture 2: hand covered his mouth
Unconsciously, his hand covered mouths, that liar to say to those trying to suppress their own lies. Sometimes people are with a few fingers or a clenched fist covering their mouth, but the meaning is the same. Some people will pretend to cough to cover up their cover mouth gestures.
A spokesman for the meeting, if in his speech that the audience Wu Zhuozui, it is one of the most disturbing sign, it means they think you may have concealed something. In such cases, you should stop and ask an audience, "that there is no problem?" Or "I have found some friends do not agree with my point of view, let us examine it." It is noteworthy that the audience their arms in the chest cross-action, and cover your mouth gestures have the same meaning.
Gesture 3: what is the normal nose itching
Itchy nose, they will simply cause people to repeated friction nose of this single gesture, while the dialogue and people throughout the content, frequency and rhythm without any contact.
Gesture 4: Friction Eyes
When a child does not want to see something, he would hand covered his eyes. Brain, eyes, gesture by rubbing the eye witness tried to stop the deception, suspicion and unpleasant things, or to avoid the face that is suffering from deceiving people. Movie actor who used the performance of friction-eyed gestures character's hypocrisy.
Men do what I do not want to see it, when this gesture is often energetically rubbing the eyes; if he tried to cover up a lie, it is likely turned elsewhere. In contrast, women with less friction and make the eye position, they are usually only lightly touched gently under the eyes. This is because the lady style restrictions on them to make rude gestures, the other hand, in order to avoid hampering the makeup. However, like men, women also turned to one side when lying in order to escape the eyes of listener attention.
Gesture 5: scratch the neck
Scratch the neck gestures are: the index finger (usually used to write the hand of the index finger) scratched the side of the neck at the bottom of the piece of lobe area. We come to the conclusion based on the observed is that people do this every gesture, the index finger is usually scratch 5 times. The small number of index finger movement would be less than 5 times or more than 5 times. This gesture is a confused and uncertain performance, equivalent to the parties to say, "I do not agree with your opinion to determine whether."
When spoken language is inconsistent with this gesture, the problem will become particularly evident. For example, someone said, "I very much understand your feelings," but at the same time he was in the scratch neck, then we can conclude that, in fact he did not understand.
Gesture 6: pull collar
Lying cause and sensitive nerve tissue of the face and neck produces irritation, tearing feeling, so people have to scratch through the action of friction or eliminate this discomfort. This phenomenon can not only explain why people are wondering when would be scratching his neck, it can also explain why the liar lies in the fear be detected, they will frequently pull the collar. This is because once they feel the listener liar doubt, enhanced blood pressure will cause the neck constantly sweating.
When a person is angry or frustrated when encountered, will be forced to pull the collar off his neck, so that the air mass into the cool clothes, cool heart of anger. When you see someone do this action, you may wish to say to him, "Can you say that again, okay?" Or "you have something to say on the straight Well, all right?" Such words will give the people trying to lie reveal his true features.
Gesture 7: between the fingers on the lips
Between the finger on the lips, gestures, and the baby sucking mother's nipple time have a close relationship, is a subconscious sense of security to the mother's embrace of desire. People often feel under pressure to make this gesture.
Children's own thumb or index finger will be held in its mouth, as a substitute for mother's nipple, while the adults showed finger on the lips, or between smoking, Diaozhuo Yan bucket, mouth, pen, biting spectacle frames, chewing gum and so on.
Gestures 8: scratch the ear
Children in order to avoid blame the parents would use two hands to plug their ears, scratch their ears gesture is an adult version of this body language. Scratch ear gestures also have a variety of changes, including friction behind the ear, the finger inserted into the ear canal which Taoer Duo, pulling ear lobe, the entire ear pierced ears folded to the front cover, and so on.
When people feel listened to enough, or want to speak, we also may be made by scratching the ear action.
Scratch an ear, means that the parties are in a state of anxiety. Prince Charles entered the room full of guests, or through the bustling crowd, often scratch their ears and friction between the nose and make gestures. These moves show that he inner nervous mood. However, we have never seen Prince Charles in the relative safety of private car to make these gestures.
But in Italy, scratching the ear movements often regarded as effeminate performance, even as a gay symbol
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