Generally written in a woman's secret diary, the locked drawer, or even attached to the ears close friend whispered inside ... ... so the men do? General in his heart. Women often need to share the secret, while the men's secret is reticent about only by their own thin chew.
Secret 1: all kinds of "feminization" of the psychological needs
Case: Cui Tao, aged 36, the company vice president - in many people's eyes, I was the so-called "successful people": has a high salary, big house, expensive cars, in fact, I have a dirty little secret, such as working hard tired , and I also like his wife leaning on the shoulder Let your heart open; on the outside hold in the grievances and sad but also wanted to very much love to cry; sometimes want to live like a child, as carefree, or Sa Sa Jiao ... ... but I was afraid would affect my wife knew in her mind, "brilliant" image.
Man's idea: from the individual in terms of life, in fact, men are more vulnerable than women, but whether a man is a woman or a man regarded formalized and absolute, as if a man means masculine, strong, pragmatic, Taidalielie, slovenly ... ... In actual fact, there are many unknown men, "feminine needs", but this is some do but not say a secret, women must not be open to see what happens.
Woman's response: man is a "face-saving" animals, like the woman's appreciation and worship, so a man's secret is very delicate and not easy to go to mystery. Just calm face of a woman, be understood to understand the hearts of the line, and do not appeals to the mouth, not because out of love away encouraged him to "weak", "childish" some, if men will think you look down upon him , and is something that makes him unable to tolerate; about his vanity and smug is also a tacit thing, it will only make him very angry.
* Keywords:
1. Vanity: make your pocket money in change more difficult, but to make themselves become like the rich, then the easier.
2. Weakness: Men also have weakness of one side, but not be disclosed.
3. Smug: Dead men do not generally admit that he liked to dress, this is a man of a "secret."
4. Childishness: seemingly shameless, actually coquetry, but they are not large-scale development.
Secret 2: The so-called "man's own thing"
Case: Liu, 30 years old,MediaReporter - after work, leisure time, I often meet with a group of friends, everyone Kan Kanda Shan, drink wine, find it very pleasant. But the wife is always worried, sometimes a few phone calls at night to lay the chase: where are you? And what people together? What are you doing? Confused people take great pains. There are things in my work, and she always asked. Know that she did so because of concern, but I really do not want her to interfere too much of these my own thing.
The idea of men: Women workers in the details, likes to communicate, love to ask questions, or even into a dead end.
Men will often feel that it is more a man's own affair, a woman is no need to make a fuss to go to anything, because men do things to men.
Woman's response: her husband when the wife needs you, do not try when his work and life planners. Everyone has to have a living space of their own psychological needs of men is no exception, so a woman wise choice is: You Taqu crazy, what Hupenggouyou, working conditions, ... ... his piece of "private plots", which he cultivated to the !
* Keywords:
1. Working conditions: Some things to the secret of the job is to not want to do during the day into the night. So, men do not like to interfere with a woman.
2. Entertaining: Men like to play with same-sex friends do not like a woman involved.
3. Rich-quick dream: desire flourishes almost every man's dream, but also carrying his wife to do, hoping one day to give a woman loved a big surprise.
Secret 3: His emotional record
Case: JACKY, 32-year-old, company project manager - before they get married, I had a girlfriend, because she has raised a variety of reasons parted. I was very painful for some time, until his wife fell in love and now married. I had never put his past experience told his wife that the relationship, but she did not know what is heard, always pestering I asked this, I sometimes inadvertently neglect to her point, she asked me with jealousy wronged : Are you the past, how she? Not as cool to me that, right? Gaode I know what to do.
I really wanted to tell her to stop right after so interested in my past, but was worried she was misunderstood and deeper, I really do not know how to open.
Man's idea: almost every man has been colorful love life, but in a man's heart, "In the past a woman" and "Today's Woman" is a two planet's people, men do not want this all to tell a woman But they were not ashamed of this man, but men think that further cultivation of the women are jealous love, if a man from exposing their "ugly" In the future there will be good days before? So all of the men, has become an extremely repressed secret.
Woman's response: Let him become a long-buried past emotional experience better. In mind his secret is set to "minefield", constantly remind myself not to involve, even heard of few words, do not inquisitive, youStubbornAnd the penny-pinching In addition to the memories and even they begin to arouse him that "she" all the advantages of What good will it? Smart woman does not know how to dig a trap since.
* Keywords:
1. Lovelorn: because it is losing face, so silent.
2. Internet Love: men will not admit to this less than honest behavior.
3. Yan Yu: There are stealing the feeling that men are wonderful, and think the best way to enjoy it as a secret to guarding.
4. Admiration: For married men, it is even more tight-lipped about his secret.
Secret 4: Sexual things anxiety
Case: ANSON, 40-year-old company employee - my wife and I more harmonious on the sex, but I always could not help worry and anxiety, such as worried about their size is not long enough to do the number, the time whether to allow her satisfaction ... ... But I also do not want these anxieties and let his wife know that she was more reluctant to take the initiative to mention.
A man's idea: The life of a man big, very care about, and every six minutes to think of one. Is composed of men of an important cornerstone of self-esteem and self-confidence, no matter what kind of men are reluctant to admit their incompetence in sexual things. Men more or less of their own sexuality have had anxiety. But this is a big secret, is to not allow a woman to know.
Woman's response: Men "sex" caused by vigorous behind, in fact, there have been a struggle. Therefore, the appreciation and trust from his wife, a man best "Viagra"Regardless of what causes he is the status of the" slippery slope "as a wife should be calm and collected on the surface, but can not be complaining.
* Keywords:
1. Views: Men are often deliberately false, but also overstatement.
2. How long: In the duration, the men are tight-lipped, and make my wife's not taboo.
3. "Guaren are disease": the most secure code is, killing not say!
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