In pairs to look at other people into the marriage hall, you are not also the existence of an impulse to want to get married?
Of course, in order to truly realize this desire must also select an appropriate love object, and the two people but also through continuous efforts, in order into the ideal marriage.
In fact, the cornerstone of marriage comes from two people's feelings, but love is the process of achieving this goal. If we chose an inappropriate love object will not only affect our future love and marriage at the same time, may also be spread to the happiness of our lives.
Of course, the choice of love object, we must pay attention to the following principles:
1. Has chosen a man for you to spend money
You spend money for a man that he is really like you. Many girls like to find a rich man fall in love. In fact, this is not necessarily a good thing, perhaps you but the other game objects. Therefore, we find a boyfriend when you are looking for those willing to pay the man, but he does not have to be very rich people (of course, worry about all day long for the money, and the hungry are not OK, that men simply there is no love conditions). Because he can do for you to spend money, notes are really like you, then you marry and spend the lifetime probability is very high.
2. Select good match love
Little Deng's boyfriend than a lot of poor conditions of their own family, but her parents, despite opposition in love with each other. Love, he was paid in the economy for the other side too much, resulting in the final marriage, because both parents in the economic arrangements for the wedding party there is no consensus, leading to the two sides separated.
Door want to be, families to be right. In fact, this sentence sums up all the have. Brilliantly concise words of our ancestors. Oh, many young people do not know, feel in this natter, and laterFrustrationMore experienced only believe. Environment created, did not! The door improperly, households do not, so it is not the way people naturally.
Of course, we should be very educated person and his love, not our university, his primary school, to be the case, then there is never any common language. This is not looked down on those who are less educated people, but sometimes their way of thinking is not the same with us, many things are understood, and different from us. Explanation is useless, he was talking with his way of thinking, always can not get that on the stage.
3. Do not fall in love with a man too much sub -
Have seen such a joke: male and female friends to sleep in a room, woman draw a line: off-line is the beast! The next day woke up and found that men really have no control over line. Woman severely hit men a slap in the face: You do not even like animals! Oh, the man also appears to be too sub-school hours.
This sub-man is to live a belief that they should do does its own thing, rather than trying to do. Almost all sub-men will have too many rules and prohibitions, if you Aide Shen, and he will make you sad; if you love too shallow, and two men in one place but can be shallow, but that such love is not a jerky it wants to apathy.
In addition, the sub-men walk into the office began to work, just like a coin has been put into the game, a short time to play a super-power. If this game suddenly stopped, then must be called a weak cast into the wrong coin.
Timid Timid, man hiding in the corner only arouse contempt leaders and colleagues, even if the will give some sympathy, nor will anyone who put coins in for him.
A woman right over the sub-men, although released 120 heart, but it always felt too Xiaojiaziqi, while most women prefer a man to add more passion for life.
Although women do want everything to go according to the procedure, a stable life and comfort, but women are also willing to occasionally "passionate" about.
4. Do not fall in love with a workaholic
Cause is a truly important element in the perfect family, men should have the dedication to work, so as to enable his family to enjoy strong protection. Enterprising men do not glance right and left, not fickle, and fastened in the cause of single-minded, looking at the distressed, thinking on the beloved.
However, if he is a workaholic, and we still have to be careful, because after marriage, his problems are not small.
You mean he is not willing to walk a few steps to the street, left-right, said that let him accompany you to go shopping at best only under the shade of a tree outside the mall waiting for. Even more critical is that he walk away when the shopkeeper, the family one thing the whole upon their stall you, tell you to perform household call you tired.
If his dedication to work too, he used at home and mind your body will be very little, you want him to accompany you shopping, he said that senseless; you want him to accompany you to the movies, he said no time. Success in his career, you can also follow the scenery, but it is other people to see, others can not see is the long time where you are lonely. Those who are not overweight men dedication, then you know how great solicitude, fallen in love with.
Too obsessed with the cause of men, mostly of command others (including women) desire. And too enterprising man to get along, the greatest harm to the spiritual aspect. In addition, the "enterprising" man mostly because of over-exertion, the body is the overall quality of the development of both the peak of state, is also facing the most unstable of the most vulnerable state, such as cardio-cerebral vascularDiseaseIs beside her, eyeing the slightest opportunity to take advantage of.
5. Do not be too narcissistic man love
"Big Wu" is not married, and people ugly useless if they had not a Offer. Pan, if it can be beauty, it is not no, but if he is too narcissistic a day, their own interests in the United States, its comfortable, at ease, according to 80 times a day the mirror, for 10 sets of clothes, from the front of the mirror tut praise, then the man can not marry.
The beginning of marriage, women to men has special affection for Canada, docile and obedient, and good men will take the initiative to take care of a woman, but if this man is too narcissistic, their only concern itself entirely around a woman can not see all the efforts to pay, depending on all the pay, and strive for granted, but wrong to see women everywhere, everywhere a dislike, then the passage of time, women are increasingly not confident, more and more numb, finally had no assertive and became a puppet.
In addition, the day missed the Shuainan difficult to concentrate on work, but also from time to time there is anxiety, subconscious fear of Shuainan the total run, or someone else will come to seduce. Calling such, Huang Huangran can not be a day and do not wait around all the time to accompany the Shuainan we go, lost a lot of things that belong to women, such as women's pride, self-esteem, coquetry, install crazy. Loss of a woman to do a lot of fun, a lot of things also do not do it.
6. Do not too fond of romantic love men
We look forward to a romantic but not too romantic. Perhaps the only people who are too kinds of romantic love does not grow rice, the first that is willing to become the first to give you a small stool footrest, the heart that is willing to become a mind to give you a small cloth pin, but I could not change table meals give you Tiandu Zi, there is increase and the grain and fodder shortage of poetic elegance and Qiongsuan, the love is not in the marriage.
Also people are not born would be romantic, too romantic man, love games on their experience, such a man better suited to be friends. If a man is to give you flowers in the downstairs Shadeng half an hour, but Rose made yet another mistake to buy into a rose no matter what, his mind was to send roses. Too much love, too sensitive a man although you love heavy Taishan, gentle似水, we would request you to his tenderness Sweetie, and ask you to put all thoughts, energy or time into his feelings and going, otherwise you do not understand his feelings. So, do you bear it?
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