Personal wanted to buy a car, after a period of evaluation comparisons, he decided to buy a dark green car. He believes that an ordinary person would choose a white or black, so dark green car in the traffic stream will be very visible. But just as he chose for himself a distinctive car complacent when he suddenly found that both on the highway, alley house, and even his residence in the district parking lot, he saw many of his car the same model dark green car. He began to feel very strange, why do we suddenly have started to buy a dark green car in?
He shared this feeling with friends and friends feel very strange. His friend had simply not noticed the dark green car on the street, but found that everywhere the red car. His friend had just bought a red sports car color.
In fact, they encountered two men are roughly the same objective situation, but why two people feel there is such a big difference? Mainly because of two people of different mentality, so that their attention is very different.
Note that refers to the mental activity on a certain point and focus on things, when people are only concerned with the psychological activities of certain objects, without regard to other objects. The person's level of consciousness, the attention to the level of awareness of belonging to the focus, which is the object of attention of people in a high state of motivation, so people can clearly understand the matter, aware of its nuances.
Note that a psychological characteristic is directional. Person's mental activity at any time point to an object, while ignoring the other objects. Mental activity points to an object, they will concentrate on this object up, this is the concentration of attention. Cerebral cortex the highest center of attention in the attention to certain things, the cortex will produce the corresponding advantages of the region excited centers, as well as neighboring regions inhibited the induction of this negative people can be more focused more clearly reflect the excitement Center stimulus. At this time, people may have all things around them, "turning a blind eye and a deaf ear" of.
Each person's state of mind will affect his vision, when he himself has a thing or a feature, he would be more than the ordinary people will notice if someone like him have this feature. Sometimes this is a reflection of the narrow field of vision and thinking, it will lead to treatment of the problem is not comprehensive, or even extreme phenomenon. Especially when people are the subject of attention focused on the negative things some time, but will also have serious psychological impact.
In fact, all of the problems faced are the same, but some people are too concerned about the negative side of life, and bring it to enlarge. This is because their inner sense of insecurity caused by irritable mood of tension, thus forming a negative effect of the retina. For the love of temper of the people, this sense of insecurity comes from a deep dissatisfaction with their own. This feeling may stem from the family. If the formation of self-perception during adolescence, a person often get negative comments from family, critical, or parents of children with family and friends often comparisons, over time, he will continue such a mindset, and self-satisfied, with a total and the surrounding environment of their own stringent requirements
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